Being a man myself, this is easy to talk about. I can simple relay my appreciations and maybe some little frustrations I've encountered over the years, from since being a young boy till being a mature man.

It's a little more complex than just to say 'men want curves', but there are some physical topics that if kept in high standards it will most likely guarantee that most of us men are more happy with the women in our lives.

Next, I will show you in a few clear points some guidelines and most commonly the 'do's' that makes us men generally happy about being with the right kind of woman.

She Can Take Care of Her Body

The first point seems kinda obvious, maybe. Kinda. But it might be a little more exclusive to most women, especially if she is the 'insensitive type'.

I'm of course talking about keeping the body clean, in shape (doesn't always mean skinny), presentable and most importantly, keeping it in a way that sings about self-appreciation, and, you know — just loving oneself.

This is just a matter of being with good hygiene, fitting and nice or cute clothing (also meaning attractive, but not overdone) and making sure that your health is top priority as well.

Since the body is the vessel of our spirit and mind, it is a very good thing to keep it in high standards. As in, keeping it important to oneself and just being nice to oneself.

She Can Handle Her Thoughts and Emotions Very Well

I personally get a lot of kicks out of this one. No kidding!

When a women is not only intelligent, but also emotionally mature (this doesn't mean Rambo Woman!) and she knows how to differ between emotions and facts.

This creates a very nice platform for communication, especially for us men who just happen to be more of a 'thinker' and less of the ultra-practical type (with the dirty oil-hands all the time).

All in all, if a woman is kind and gentle-hearted with good manners, that's a big step in the right direction!

She Is Socially Well-Mannered

There is (almost) nothing more attractive than a social beauty queen err, I mean a beautiful social queen. I can speak for most men that this is what they really like in a woman.

Beside being nice, it's also (or even more so) important that she is kind, gentle and knows her manners!

Not any men loves a women that can ramble on and on about the latest gossip, who is rude and very loud. This is not very attractive and also not very kind.

She Can Handle Her Finances and Other Responsibilities

A very important topic of course is finances, and her ability to manage them well. That means no extreme shopping addictions or other over-expensive habits.

Now, there's nothing wrong with shopping of course, just try to keep it within a range that is considered healthy and normal.

There's nothing better than a bill being paid. So also with a female partner in our lives. If she is having large financial problems, this can be very frustrating and create distance between the partners.

Other responsibilities, such as family and children, you know, keeping the house clean and such things.

Meeting an agreement and being on time on dates is also a thing to be treasured!

So, there you have it! My simple and comprehensive guide for women, and how to keep the man happy and attracted by doing these basic, yet sometimes time-consuming and complex things that will guaranteed make (most) men a lot more attracted to you and wanting to keep having you around!

Good luck!

By Matthias Zegveld — the Netherlands

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